its complicated

See see I told ya sooner or later I'm gonna be lazy to update the blog. Haha. Well I'm not gonna elaborate on my laziness. Just want to blog on how complicated women are. I know not everyone like this but I'm giving example of majority of women. Case in point - ME.

When a guy we love didn't do things he promised, we will go haywire. Even just because of small thing. Why? Because it indicates what type of person he is. If he doesn't do what he promised now, then will he sticks to what he promised after we get married? We always think like that. Part of the reason because we don't want to choose the wrong person and end up feel sorrow the rest of our life and he can easily be with other woman.

We also want to become the priority in the life of the guy we love. I know its unfair but it just who we are. However there is a trick. All we want to hear is we are the priority. Not necessarily that you really need to prioritize us. Just know when to say the good word.But still remember promise is a promise. See, complicated right?

Then, the importance of sharing is caring. You know how women really love to share stories about what she's been doing all day long? Even the tiniest things that happen to her. Like how she whining she has a lot of tasks and doesn't have time to do, like how she uses different shower gel in the morning and the fact that she has new pimple? Yes. We like to share with you.

new giant pimple need to tell you asap so that you won't be shocked lol

As much as we like it, we also want our guy to share what he's been doing all day long. Share problems, funny stories or stupid funny bosses. Because we feel more connected that way and more appreciated when you share your stories to us. And do response sincerely when we tell our story to you because you definitely don't want us to blame you for our bad day.

Do speak softly to us especially if the relationship is on the rock. It can make our hearts softer towards you and yes definitely we always want to speak softly nicely to you because we know your heart will also feel softer. So lets do it together. Speak nicely softly to each other when we fight. Trust me, the feeling when loved couple reconcile after fight is the best feeling ever.

And last but not least, when we fight, please don't leave us alone and ignore us. We just want your attention to see whether you really love us, can cope with our antics and whether you won't leave us when we fight after we get married. I don't know where the guys can learn this but please know how to coax us women. Sometimes the most important thing is knowing what to say.

This post is intentionally to all man out there. Good luck in having wonderful relationship with loved ones.

Till then. Assalamualaikum.